which is good arranged or love marriage?

Marriage is overrated anyway, the best marriage for me is what I've done, marriage for getting papers to stay in a country.

 

It depends on the two people, for me both ways are ok, never mind, just make sure i like her and glad to spend rest of my life with her.

 

I prefer love marriage

 

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i think love marriage and arranged marriage the best option love marriage ..

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I vote for marriage whit respect!

 

I hope your partner is aware of your reasons and you aren't referring to duping anyone.

 

Arranged marriage between people who are in love is my way of things.

 

Arranged marriage is for people to weak to go find their other half . You could say it's for men that lack a manhood .

 

I think love marriage is good?

 

i agree with you .. many love marriage is success ..

 

i think love marriage is best

 

Obviously Love marriage

 

I think that's a bit unfair- it's the cultural norm in some places. Granted this is (thankfully) changing now, but it's a slow process.

 

love love love marriage is best at all the time.

 

It isn't really unfair, it's sad - but it's a fair statement. Arranged marriages are wrong on a number of levels; marriage is for two people in love - not two people who have families that think they're right for each other.

Another issue with arranged marriage, in particular amongst Muslim Pakistani families in England, is that there are an alarming number of incestuous marriages between first cousins, which causes children born to have horrible birth defects, including some being born both deaf AND blind

 

Love (lust) marriage is mostly momentary emotions which wash off with time, for a stable relationship its important for couples to know each others background as well. Its not just two people, its a combination of 2 families, better to have arranged marriage.

 

Marriage is a life long contract, better chances for it to be successful is when families are involved in the marriage, families know each other. Its not just for two people in love or I may say lust. Love does not last long when a man sees her wife in the morning without make up.

 

I think it depends on person to person.
But now a days love marriage is going
maximum.But i prefer love marriage
also.

 

I personnaly feel that love marriages are much more beneficial in comparison to arranged but i also think that it is very difficult to predict the ideal sort of marriage. It is up to the individual to decide whether he wants to have a love or an arranged marriage.

 

In China it's the norm to have the word "freedom" banned . In Saudi Arabia the practice of any other religion except Islam is the norm . What you call norm it's a old abomination that causes sadness and torn marriages . Besides you leave in England (or you say so) the norm in the UK is - freedom -

Love is what keeps a man and a woman together not a two bit piece of paper . Go educate yourself before posting such non-sense .

Really , families must be involved ? So she should call you mom if you're rubbish in bed ? Or you'll call her brother if your wife is frigid ?