A serious Problem !!!

One of my best friend is going to marry a boy who will leave his parents if they dont agree upon their marriage.Girl got permission from her caretakers and as usual they dont mind whom she is going to marry at all.So they permitted .But the problem is whether these people are going to do good or bad ?If in case boy leave his parents as well as his home and go somewhere else just for that girl ,whether is it good or worst?and also boy is 3-4 years older than girl and they will do love marriage .IF boy leave his parent then he can also leave the girl .SO suggest me how to solve the problem

 

Just because the boy left his parents to marry the girl doesn't mean he is going to leave the girl. His parents are trying to make a decision of a lifetime for him and he decided not to allow them, there is nothing wrong with that. It goes to show how much he loves the girl.

 

then what about the care and love of his parents ?Was that all in vain?No Worth to mom's care and love just for a girl who would be his ,is still not confirmed .
She already had 1 boyfriend in past and she scold her saying that you left me after committed ,now no need to call me again .and that boyfriend was the guy she loved a lot .
Dont you think the whole situation goes like lust .I dont see any sign of true love at all.

 

"True love" lol

Ever heard of the 7 year itch? It's basically the process where after seven years, a couple get tired of each other.

In nature, most animals have a set span of time that they're intended to stay together (usually just long enough to raise the child to be self-sufficient), after that they break up and go their own way.

 

How about you keep your nose out of someone else' business? How is it a 'problem' and what makes it 'your' problem?

The girl wants to marry that guy, the guy wants to marry that girl and so they are marrying each other. If both are adults, they are responsible for their lives and whatever happens in it.
Stop being nosy, you seem like a control freak who feels obligated to screw with everyone's life around him.

 

Or the boy in the story is no other than you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

not really a serious problem, its how they will handle the situation.

 

I am not the boy in the story .....its something different

 

Who boy leave his parents for a girl, He leave any girl. then the care and love of his parents.

 

look at it on the different side, he is willing to leave his parents.. for a girl.. so if he is strong enough to leave his parents then he wont want to leave the girl.. its hardly a serious problem

 

but dear see this point also if he can leave his parents ,so he may leave that girl also for the next girl ....It is then not easy to believe him .Do you think it is wisdom to leave old parents for a girl???

 

there is no problem there dude, if they love eachother why not try, you only live once

 

You have a point there. If the boy can leave his parents for the girl then he can also one day leave the girl, who is your best friend.

Talk to your friend about it and stand by her decision.

 

life is once .and temporary .How many love marriages you have found successfull?

 

yup!!! man you got the exact point this time .I talked her but you know girls nature ,when she is damn confident about something ,she wont listen to anyone but likes to get positive opinions from her friends and all. I talked her about the same circumstances and she was saying that this wont happen .That boy might leave his parents because of her so he wont leave her .Now this is the biggest challenge of her life ,.and i seriously dont want her disappointing over any matter as any cost .

 

"True love" lol

Ever heard of the 7 year itch? It's basically the process where after seven years, a couple get tired of each other.

 

Here's the solution: The boy leaves his parents, the girl leaves her parents. They're married to each other and live happily ever after.

 

Leaving parents for the girl is not good at all. The relationship of the boy with parents is far more and long than with girl.

 

LOL, I'd leave my parents if there was no girl, because adult people need to live by themselves. Kids live with parents, not adult.

 

Dude, do you expect him to live with his parents forever?
And I can't see why this is your problem, mind your own business.