A serious Problem !!!

You know what I think about this thread?
This 'If the guy can leave his parents, then he can leave the girl as well' is nothing but loads of bullcrap.

The OP is in love with his 'best friend' but never had balls to tell her. Now when the girl is marrying another guy, he is simply jealous and can't take it..

since he can't do anything else, he is crying on a forum like all other no-balls guys.

 

absolutely wrong this time .I am not crying over here but asking you what you would do if you were here,at my place ?Its up to you how to interpret my question .I really dont mind of what you said.You can care of your girlfriends ,but can you let her do something wrong with her life? I cant let my "best friend" do wrong with her life.She is still childlike and unaware of what would be its consequences

 

this is not an issue whether he leave his parents or not but he may leave the girl too if he dares to leave his parents , who made him where his right now. Reply me all whether you all can leave your parents for a girl you love?I dont thinks so you would do?
Second thing is he may leave the girl which is too much paining .I am not saying he will .
But still chances are there.This seems not a natural love but desire.and they are calling it love unnecessarily .

 

Actually the fact is boy know's that after getting married with her beloved one parents wont be able to do anything . and his parent have to except both of them and by the way time heels everything .

 

If so he could have disputes daily with his parents .He is having so.

 

I've left my parents long ago to complete my study, that required me to move to a different city than my native place. Then I went abroad to work. When I was asked to resign from my work, I came back to my country. But I'm still living alone, away from my parents. Now if I can leave my parents for money, I can leave a girl for money as well, right?


Also, if I love a girl and I'm committed to her, I'll leave my parents if they do not accept her. It is my life and I have rights to take decisions. If my parents don't care about my life and my love, I'm forced to take harsher decisions.

If I were you, I'd have been happier to see that guy has guts to go against his parent's will for his love and keep my nose out of affairs between her and her boyfriend. It shows his commitment for that girl and you are a bloody fool to come to that conclusion that he can leave the girl if he can leave his parents. He is proving that he is not a momma's boy (That I suspect you are) but a man capable of doing the right things.

Guys like you disgust me when they mislead a girl claiming that they love her and when it comes to marriage, they back off saying - "My momma said- you are not good enough for me.. I'm gonna go home and cry in my momma's lap".

 

first i would like to tell you that she had a boyfriend in the past and with him she was committed to but finally what happened - Break up.and this made my dost in depression and she was sad .I dont want anything like such to be the next event in her life .And for you i put a suggestion that everyone is mama's boy you too .It is you who may not accept it ,may be because you are not . and love for parents is first .
Remember-
"I wont die for the girl i love because she would get another boy but my mom wont get another son like me"
hope you mind it ever !!!

 

and do you think the whole world is mad that cares and loves their parents and marry with their choice,although it would be both's choice .

 

Who died and made you her guardian? She doesn't need your 'protection' so stop pretending as if you are her elder brother.
If I'm in love with a girl, I'm gonna tell my parents.. If they respect my decision and support it, Its all cool. If they don't then I don't care, I'll marry her anyway. If they don't want to see me ever again, I'm fine with that. I'm not gonna back off on a girl that I loved and cared about.

If love for parents come first for you, don't fall in love with a girl, dont even talk about love, and don't screw with anyone else' life. Be a good momma's boy and wait till she finds you a "convent educated, fair and homely" girl. And then marry her.

Are you a moron? Who is talking about dying? If I'm in love with a girl, I'm gonna marry her if she wants to. I'm not gonna cry a river because my parents wont 'allow' me to marry. I'm man enough to take a decision for my life and stand by it. I love my parents, but if they fail to accept my decision about my own life, I'm not bothered about their 'approval'.

What world do you live in? Whole world marries where their parents want them to? That's the most moronic thing I've ever heard.
The world is whole lot bigger than the well you live in. And many people in modern civilized world marry to the person they want to, they don't go and ask their parents whether they should marry her/him. The conservative, narrow minded, dowry loving hypocritical Indian society and equally narrow minded countries only places where parents 'fix' the marriage of their sons/daughters.

 

now you want your parents to "respect" your decision .

I am her friend and have the rights to think of her good or bad . people like you can deal with words only .Dont have courage to do so .
while living in India society is itself a matter of proud .We don't have couple or more affairs in one life and we still respect our parents and their decision .
We are developing at an exponential rate and We have the will to take our decision our own but we first try to convince our parents on the matter and only of they approve we move ahead.and see where are we now.These are few exceptions in our nation that are so. else we are different and leading with proud at all.
and also we are not others who don't care of our's .We have respect and love to all.Hope you don't need anymore description or you should visit us once .what if a guy leave his parents who cares for him more than a 'wild girl.Its not indian culture but people adopted it from outside .We dont have privilage of marring more than one and have several affairs for entertainment .

 

Its better to convince their parents.

 

Its good to know that people still run and leave stuff for someone in such times when no one bother about someone and think only about him self. *TRUE LOVE* aaaww

 

Just because the boy larboard his parents to ally the babe doesn't beggarly he is activity to leave the girl. His parents are aggravating to accomplish a accommodation of a lifetime for him and he absitively not to acquiesce them, there is annihilation amiss with that. It goes to appearance how abundant he loves the girl.

 

Yes, I want them to respect my decision regarding my life, like I respect theirs regrading their lives.

You don't have rights for shit mate.. It's her life and if she wanted your opinion she would have asked you. She is mature enough to take decisions in her life and she doesn't need you to play her brother. If she wants to marry the guy, she will. And meanwhile you can cry your ass here on DP forums..

A society still adopting honor killings, deeply divided into caste, 80% population living under acceptable standards, poverty prevalent, scarcity of drinkable water and food, yupp I sure feel like proud.
Development at exponential rate? The population is growing at exponential rate, with people breeding like rabbits. 10th in the world GDP(nominal) wise, 7th in the world size wise. but 2nd in the world population wise (soon to be the first).

You are a retard if you think that only Indian society has family value. I've seen better family values in my 6 years of stay in Europe.
I should visit you? No thanks I'll pass. FYI, I'm an Indian. I'm proud of things that I should actually be proud of, not blanket pride of being born in a deeply divided, narrow minded, sexist and perverted society.

I'm proud of my history and my heritage, I'm proud of my education, I'm proud of limited few who are making changes in Indian society, I'm proud of being one of those contributing in the progress of this country.
I'm not proud of this filth filled society.

 

Parents have children because the girl want a baby, she had that baby, now the baby has his own life to live. You don't owe your parents anything, they made you in order to have a baby, they got it, not it's your turn!
They fed you, they loved you, because that was what they were into, feeding and loving their baby. It's normal they love you since they wanted you in the first place.
Now it's normal you love them too, they're the ones you first saw and spent most time with love (in most cases) so you love them back.

But all those stupid rules of morality, about you must do that and that, this is bullshit, you're alive and you're free, let your mind go free, don't get stuck because of what others taught you, you're not a trained dog or a robot, are you?

Well, so especially since you've nothing to do with this story (best friend and another boy) what are you going to do about it and why are you even wasting time thinking about it?

 

True Love........is difficult to find......as you can say impossible........Love fucks !

 

I could never understand that either.. I mean, I can understand if an uneducated woman, who can not support herself, does that. But I've seen highly educated women, earning good money taking abuses from their husbands. It is nuts.

It's our society that treats women as 2nd grade human being. A girl is taught to be obedient and forgiving, society doesn't talk highly of a divorced woman, even other women (including mother, aunts etc) blame them for everything.. When it comes to husband, 'nothing is too much' is the mentality.

 

the boy leave his parents ? means what ?　 they have never contacted with each other or only don't live together ? if it is the first one ,i think your friend never marry him !

 

look on the bright side.maybe the guy really loves his girlfriend,so..she uses a variety of ways to live forever with a girl who he loved.
although the way he uses it wrong.
if they were two happy parents are happy they will come too.