In your school days, are you a bully or the one who's been bullied??

I'm a little bit of both but i mostly enjoyed being the bully.

 

I tried to be neither.
I don't like bullies.

 

Me too.. but sometimes when i enjoyed the jokes i got carried away not even knowing that it hurts the person.. then realized it afterwards.

 

I guess that tends to happen when you talk before you think.

I was neither at school.

 

Yeah, and because as a kid I love to play around

 

neither.because i hate people who dont believe in there self and get themselves bullied and those are worst who bully other because they dont have guts to face the truth

 

whenever I watch a movie where there's a part of a bully i still remembers my childhood stuff haha! hilarious though

 

When I was very young I bossed my cousins around. Not really a bully, just bossy. Then I grew out of it (I think). I was never bullied too much because I had three older brothers who wouldn't let anyone be mean to me.

 

It turns out I ended up being the Neighborhood Bully equalizer. Let me share the story with you, lol.

We moved from the West coast to one of the Midwestern states when I was only eight years old. My step father was a big and mean Truck driver who Bullied our family so I was already use to dealing with Bully's. We moved into a very small house that had an alley and a small field behind it. On the other side of that field was an alley with a house where the neighborhood Bully resided, so both of our back yards each had an alley and a field behind it. At this time I did not know that the very large kid that lived there was the neighborhood Bully. He was around 6' 1" and weighed close to 200 lbs and 12 years old. I was barely 9 years old and maybe 110 lbs.

Ok, now that you have a picture in mind of the setting, so one day my Step Father takes me to the back of our house to look out the back window and there is "Biatch" written on our trash can. He points to the Bully and say's "You see that punk?" I said "yea!" He tells me that he's the one that wrote that on our trash can and he want's me to stomp him. He then Tells me if I don't the he's gonna give me another whipping that I won't forget. He also said if I lose then he's still gonna whip me. Now keep in mind that he has beaten me so bad before that it's taken weeks sometimes for me to heal so I definitely wanted to avoid that from happening again.

So, I wonder out into the field where the Bully is playing and didn't say anything to him, just made my presence known. Keep in mind that I'm just a child and I've never started a fight with anyone nor have I been in any fights before other than to defend myself a time or two. The Bully seen me in his field "he says" and runs to me yelling at me to get off his property. I just stood there and then the Bully attacked. I went ballistic on the Bully and beat him to the ground. I jumped on top of him and whaled on his face. His mom heard the commotion and ran out of her house, ran up to us fighting and pulled me off of him. There was a little blood trickling from the Bully's nose and his lip was busted.

After this happened the Bully's mom came down to our house and complained about me beating up her son. My step father told her he was glad I beat her punk of a son up and if he writes anything on our trash can again that he will have me do it again. She then threatened to send her husband down (her husband was 6'-8" and weighed 340 lbs). I step dad told her to send him over here and he will send his big fat arse rolling on back down the alley.

Fast forward, in the next year, the Bully attacked me two more times. Keep in mind that I never started any fights with this kid nor did I want to fight him. Both of these times the result was the same. I beat him to the ground and his mother pulled me off of him one of those times.

Then my little brother came home crying one day with welt's all over his back. He said that the Bully beat him with a Bicycle chain. About two hours later the Bully came walking down the alley with one of his friends. This is the only time I started a fight with the Bully or anyone for that matter. I think the Bully thought he was safe because he was with his friend. First I ran up to his friend and punched him in the nose. He ran off with a bloody nose. Then I beat the Bully to the ground and dragged him into my backyard. I got him into a head-lock and yelled into my house for my brother to come out. My brother came out crying and was scared. I yelled at my brother to kick the Bully. He wouldn't do it at first but the more I yelled at him to do it, he finally kicked the Bully a couple of times to get even. I let the Bully go and that's the last time the Bully attacked me or my brother.

 

Neither, I would stand up against bullies. But I went to a smart school so we really didn't have many of them, lots of mutual respect in our school.

 

I am never a bully to my friends.

 

I know where you're coming I also do that to my little brother.

Wheew!! such a long story, thanks!

Well, I guess that's a really nice place to study. But if I enrolled there they might have a little bully lmao!

Never been a bully to your friends but how about to other people whom you're not friends with??

 

I doubt it

 

i think i'm been bullied

 

I got beaten up if that counts?

 

I never bullied anyone, but I did stand up to a few. I won a couple of fights and lost a couple. But I never started a fight. I was forced into defending myself.

 

Your welcome, I'm full of a lot of hot air.

I could have made it longer too, lol. I think I will lol.

So after I started to meet the other kids in the neighborhood I then learned that the Bully had beaten all of them up at one time or another. This is how I learned that he was indeed a Bully. I became an instant celebrity in the neighborhood and everyone wanted to be my friend lol. End of story! lmao!!!!

 

You've made me remember how a certain fellow used to harass some of us during the first years in school. We tolerated his nonsense for some time, but the tide turned on him later on. I got my chance to revenge, but didn't. I thought it was the wrong way to make him know how hurtful he was.

He did learn his lesson, without being bullied.

 

I was the part of the "Cool Guys" Group

 

Haha I love dp for.this kind of.sociable topics. Lovely.

Anyway, lots of things said n rooky, I just read few sentences to ur story but I get the picture. Kudos ur a hero...

Ok for me, ive been bullied alittle but when im around a bully and the person being bullied I will go against the bully aka busybody. What can I say, I like to defend the weak which in turn got me into trouble. But it was worth it.

I was also in the cool group but its sad im not the coolest, im the extra.