'Feel Loved'

The conflict in any marriage should not be mystery for any one.

May be most of the couple anywhere in the world are applying the principal of Real Love. Also they always try to get highest amount of happiness out of their relationships, possibly which may be the only expectation of ever couple and it is quite natural.

To understand the real problem in relationships starts by understanding what his/her partner need and expect the most. It is quite understandable that every one knowing what his/her partners needs & requirements.

The bottom line and ultimate aim for any couple may be nothing but ‘Feel Loved’

Friends your views please.

G!

 

I remember one quote...
"People doesn't hurt but those expectations which you have in them."
So dont expect too much from any one, and try to love what the really do !

 

Tolerance is very important for both lovers who are in it to win it.

 

At the heart of it, a man wants to touch the truth -- that you love him -- that he's "the one" for you. He wants to feel that he inspires happiness in you and that you accept, trust, and appreciate him. At his depth a man needs to know that he makes a positive difference in your life, otherwise he doesn’t even want to live.

A man’s deepest fear is that he is not good enough. If he looks in your eyes and sees love, he feels loved, and in that innocence, he loves you in return. He loves you for the feeling of energy which your appreciation and love evoke in him.

For a woman to maintain this state is next to impossible! Especially given the ways they disappoint us!2 flowers

But this is the consciousness of a graceful woman. Yogi Bhajan says that when a woman fills herself with a forgiving, loving consciousness, everything on the earth will come to her, because her grace as a woman is so radiant.

Many men had mothers who didn’t come through for them. For example, many Mothers had a difficult time letting go of their sons. The boys have to pull away in order to define themselves. Even when grown, men seem to still need to withdraw to find solutions and identity. Fortunately, unlike his mother, you can let him go. You’ll be very surprised that when he comes back he’ll be feeling a lot of love and appreciation for you. If you can greet that love with affection, life will be very enjoyable. But most women are angry that he withdrew and so the fight continues.

Where a woman feels love for those who emotionally and physically support her,

a man feels love in response to a woman's gracious, and loving reactions to him.



The song writer , Eric Clapton once wrote -- "And then she asked me, 'do you feel

alright?' I said 'My darling, I feel wonderful tonight-- I feel wonderful because I see

the love light in your eyes...and my darling, you were wonderful tonight...'"



John Gray, author of Men are From Mars, has expressed a man's needs extremely well:
“Every time a woman appreciates what a man has done for her, he feels loved..." (197)



“To keep the score even in a relationship,

a man really doesnt require anything but love."

Women don’t realize the power of their love and many times unnecessarily seek to earn a man’s love by doing more things for him than they want to do.” (198). If a man doesn't feel appreciated, then all her contributions to the running of the house are totally meaningless to him. “A major source of love for a man is the loving reaction that a woman has to his behavior.” (198)

As most women also know, sex is one of the biggest and best rewards for a man. True proof that you love him.

 

I am moved, What a well thought out and beautiful post.

I really like some of Eric Clapton's songs including Bozz Scaggs and Van Morrison.

Here is Wonderful Tonight
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Communication is the key every relationship will have its ups and downs it’s how you get over them that matter.

 

Too good reply.

Thanx very for sharing your most valuable thoughts.

Keep sharing.

G!

 

Excellent Reply, I must say . I hope you will keep sharing your Valuable thoughts with us.

 

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