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Do you ever feel lonely?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Spoiltdiva, Jul 17, 2011.

  1. dess71

    dess71 Well-Known Member

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    #261
    Oh ya I feel it but I think I usually want to be alone I don't know how I will get a woman that will adapt my style ??
     
    dess71, Apr 22, 2013 IP
  2. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    #262
    Fighting is normal and is in itself a form of communication. When this happens just remind yourself of this fact, and try not to feel lonely.
    Anyone who says that they never fight with their partner,(wife/husband/gf/bf.) is lying to you.;)
     
    Spoiltdiva, Apr 22, 2013 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    #263
    You fight *because* he loves you so much. Everything you say or do has great meaning to him and carries great weight. He seeks your approval and feels rejection when he feels that you don't like what he's doing or saying.
    Did we not all react badly when our parents didn't approve of us when we were younger? Did we still not love them even when we were angry at them?
    Love is complicated...never lose sight of that.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Apr 22, 2013 IP
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    watsonovedades Member

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    #264
    i guess i know what lonely feels but i try to keep as far as possible from that vibe, you gotta program your mind for it
     
    watsonovedades, Apr 22, 2013 IP
  5. Alan Gray

    Alan Gray Peon

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    #265
    No never feel loney Till now I hope same will go in my life my mom always is gona be there
     
    Alan Gray, Apr 24, 2013 IP
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    nelum8 Active Member

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    #266
    I've felt alone before. There was one time when I felt very alone because I felt like everyone around me had abandoned me. One friend was angry at me. Another just showed no interest about what was going on in my life but constantly talked about himself. There was drama going on with my family.... This all happened during a rough time in my life. Looking back, I'm probably partially responsible for some things but I still felt very much alone.

    I'm a little more optimistic now. :p
     
    nelum8, Apr 24, 2013 IP
  7. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    "Blessed are the memories that make us laugh as well as cry, for without them how could we teach our children?" -A saying from the Sioux (Lakota) people.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Apr 24, 2013 IP
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    iZone-Host Peon

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    #268
    No never thaks to god
     
    iZone-Host, Apr 26, 2013 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    Instead of giving "thaks" to God you ought to give him "thanks". Thank God for people who bother to spellcheck.;)
     
    Spoiltdiva, Apr 26, 2013 IP
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    GeeOne Well-Known Member

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    #270

    Some times it happens, you can say when stars are weak :(

    Don't worry time changes, there is a morning after dark night.

    Think positive and be optimistic.

    G!
     
    GeeOne, Apr 26, 2013 IP
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    nimohostco Peon

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    #271
    Ya lots of time I always miss my father he is no more bur my mum makes that place full fill as a best friend of mine
     
    nimohostco, May 1, 2013 IP
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    M.M. Alam Active Member

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    #272
    i feel lonely whenever i came back from vacation to my home country.
     
    M.M. Alam, May 1, 2013 IP
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    qwikad.com Illustrious Member Affiliate Manager

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    #273
    Just recently I read a quote that goes something like this:

    "I never feel lonely when I am alone. The only time I feel lonely is when I am in the company of people I really don't care about."

    Or something like that. Been there.

    PS I didn't bring up this old thread. It was just there, at the top, this morning.
     
    qwikad.com, Aug 13, 2013 IP
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    dcristo Illustrious Member

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    #274
    Yep. There is the misconception that being lonely is not having very many friends when in reality it is a mindset.
     
    dcristo, Aug 13, 2013 IP
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    Kyliemeg Active Member

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    Sometimes, I do. My online friends help when my world gets lonely.
     
    Kyliemeg, Aug 27, 2013 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    Sorry to burst your bubble old friend.:cool: But "online friends" aren't really friends at all. If we disappear from this site, we will be forgotten in a heartbeat. If you are relying on the internet to fill a void in your life, then you are setting yourself up for disappointment. I advise you to get out into the real world, and work on developing your social skills.;)
     
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    Spoiltdiva, Aug 27, 2013 IP
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    Abdullah shaikh Greenhorn

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    #277
    get the crushing realization of how lonely I am. ... so much trouble to try and make friends, I'm never invited to do things with people. .... It really means a lot to me that you guys read this and left some comments.
     
    Abdullah shaikh, Aug 27, 2013 IP
  18. Kerosene

    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    #278
    I have friends that almost seem scared to be alone... Which results in them not actually doing much by themselves, or for themselves. They seem to live their lives based upon what other people are doing.
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    I think when other people might feel lonely, that's the time when I feel free.
    Only child/lone wolf syndrome.
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    There is only one world. And it's all mine.
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    Kerosene, Aug 28, 2013 IP