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I dont like people anymore

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by spiced, Mar 24, 2025.

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    Do you guys find yourselves disliking humanity more and more as the years go by.How superficial they are, how dishonest they are,how stupid they are.The benefits of being around and having contact with people are decreasing more and more.
     
    spiced, Mar 24, 2025 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    I agree with the gist of your post. I am what can be described as a 'friendly recluse'. I appear friendly because I have renters/tenants who I have to deal with as well as business partners and contracters. But deep down inside they all disgust me as I look down on some, and can see through the hypocrisy of others.

    When the day is over I shut myself off from the rest of the world by hiding behind the sanctuary of my 6 foot walled home. I let the answering machine take all calls and my cellphone is off, and I do not check my e-mails until next morning.

    I don't like people either, never did.:mad:
     
    Spoiltdiva, Mar 24, 2025 IP
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    RayLey Greenhorn

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    someone said truth, respect ! agree with you
     
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    Honestly, I get what you mean. It feels like people are getting more self-centered and fake, especially online. But at the same time, there are still good, genuine people out there. I just try to focus on those who bring value and cut out the negativity.
     
    CarlosFedcjen, Mar 25, 2025 IP
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    "People" are stupid, disgusting, and generally suck. That's why I try to avoid crowds, heavily attended events, etc. I try to zig while "people" are zagging.

    Individuals vary and some of them are good and good to know. You just have to know how to find and associate with such individuals.
     
    jrbiz, Mar 26, 2025 IP
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    It’s understandable to feel frustrated at times, especially when we see a lot of negativity in the world. People can definitely be superficial, dishonest, or make decisions that seem unwise, but it's important to remember that there are also many individuals who inspire us, make meaningful connections, and show kindness. Sometimes, it helps to focus on the smaller, more positive aspects of human interaction.
     
    GuzziCoCo, Mar 28, 2025 IP
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    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    This does the rounds on facebook every so often - because it resonates with so many of us. I guess thats why teens have massive friend groups, 50yo don't.

     
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    I think it’s also important to remind myself that there are still good people out there. The negative stuff tends to stick with you more, but there are moments when connecting with others can still be meaningful. It’s all about finding those people who aren’t caught up in the superficial stuff.
     
    CourageTheCowardlyDog, Mar 28, 2025 IP
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    Sumit_Singh Well-Known Member

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    I agreed.
    I have many friends but they talk to me only when they are in need of something. Even I started hating myself too, I know self love is more important but I am now a person who doesn't have any interest in anything, just living (don't know why?).
     
    Sumit_Singh, Apr 2, 2025 at 11:51 PM IP
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    Bruce McGivern, Apr 3, 2025 at 8:34 AM IP