Dating is rough ...

I never thought I'd ever go thru this again. I was married for a minute and now I'm back in this stupid game of trial and error.

And I hate it. Anyways, I like this one girl but she wants to change me. When I say forget it, she does change her tone and stops it.

but it still sucks feeling like you're not enough for someone.

Then there is this other girl and no matter what I do, she accepts it. I can do whatever and she is cool with it and that kills me. However, I don't feel it with her.

Now it's Saturday night (girl #1 is outta town) and I am invited to a party downtown but not sure if I wanna go, I always wind up meeting some girl and that will not be the answer.

Why I am typing all this I dunno but maybe I am just searching for answers.

Any advice ?

 

Yeah make as much money as you can because there are not many chicks gona stick with a poor man very long unless they are dirt poor themselves.

 

Yeh top 2 offline advices I get:

#1 All chicks want is money, focus on that and you'll be ok.
#2 Have sex with as many as possible ...

 

#2 = not having money because of child support and divorce settlements

Best bet is to find one smarter and richer than you will ever be and kiss a lot of arse.

Beats working construction man

 

Maybe Yahoo! Personals would be the answer ... but I think half those chicks on there are really dudes

 

College towns like Gainesville (university of Florida) are where all the girls are man, just go to the clubs on Friday night, they are all there, take my word for it.

They are not sitting in dorm doing homework, bet your bottom dollar on it

If half the chicks are dudes ST, just buy a 45 and when they take it off if they are a man, shoot them and then yourself man.

PS: be sure that you are dating girls SiteTutor

 

OK back to the topic: any good advice?

 

I know it sounds cliche, but it never seems to fail. You will find love when you stop looking for it. Instead, find your very best friend. That will be the one you can keep forever.


Cricket

 

I feel just like you. Never been married, but I have always had long relationships. I was dumped by my last girlfriend about 5 months ago because I was spending too much time online. She always said I was just wasting my time on the net and I would never earn a cent. Now I earn almost 2k with just an hour of daily work... so, I have money, I have time, but I can't find any interesting girls!!

I have also felt like joining one of those dating sites, but then I start to think about it, and I would feel like a huge geek joining one of those places... I don't want a cyber-girl! I want a real one!

 

You can control most things in life, love you can't ... it controls you. Once of the few important things I have learned.

 

Do you want to be changed, Sitetutor? I doubt it. Human nature shows that we enjoy our own routines and don't typically like them to be changed. We like who we are (typically). From what I've read about you on this site, and at your business, you seem to be someone who's fairly well off and doing ok for himself. I don't think you need to change for one particular girl. There's lot of them out there. SD is also a pretty hot place for some women, so go downtown, go to the parties. You may not meet the right one, but what's the rush? I'd rather take the time to find the right one then rush into something with the wrong one and waste a whole bunch of time and money.

 

I just got off the phone with girl #1. Her name is Nikki and she kicks ass ... I hope she's the one, I think she is!

 

Yep, the one thing most chicks want is money. At least my last girlfriend did. I was in a similar situation as fryman. She said I needed to get a well paying job and stop fooling around online. We broke up about 12 months ago and recently she phoned me and said she wanted to talk about possibly getting back together. I politely told her to get lost. Now I am enjoying being single, hanging out with mates, flirting with chicks and drinking beer.

 

Hey Fryman and Craige.......the song, skater boy, come to mind?

 

Here's a thought. Why not go to the party and maybe have some fun? Don't go with the idea that you're going to meet someone.You don't have to you know.

That's your problem. You're searching. You gotta quit that. You'll never find it.

 

Elvis never had any problems attracting women ST, can you shake your hips and sing

Maybe you should become a rap star, Snoop Doggy Dog is never hurting, even young white girls like him, can you get down with it bro?

I can see it now, SiteTutor on MTV doing a music video with all kinds of dancers hanging all over him, homey you know you got it goin on G

 

Anthony, what do you know about dating?

As soon as you open your trap in company of a lady (assuming you ramble the same stuff as here), she'll be running faster than a cat can scratch its ass

 

No man, I am like Elvis, they stick with me even if my idea of passion is craping out like he did after taking a bunch of pills.

Elvis could not even stay awake and his girlfriends stuck with him

 

LMAO!!