For Girls: What would you do?

AS STATED IN THE TITLE, I REALLY NEED THE GIRLS TO RESPOND TO THIS.

Hello,

Consider the following scenario:

Let's say that you have been knowing a guy for about six years. Recently (nine months ago), you and him talked to each other more than usual. You begin to have an interest in him. A short time later, you find out that he has been stalking (or something similar) you for two months, and you lose all interest in him, and you look at him as a creep.

Now let's say he's changed and has profusely apologized for his actions, and has begged you for a second chance at interest. He also goes on to say that it is not who he is, and that he has made a terrible mistake, and would do anything to fix her trust:

• What would it take for you to unlabel him as a creep, and regain your trust and interest?
• How long would it take?
• Would anything be the same?

Please take into consideration that you girls are funny about trust, and that it sometimes takes a very long time to get it back.

Thank you.

 

I am not a girl, but I know something about them. If a girl really likes a guy, he can stalk her as much as he wants, she won't mind and will think it's so cute that he is trying to get her attention so much. Because in her eyes everything he does is adorable.

On the other hand, if she is really not into the guy, she may play games with him for a while, but when he does something she really doesn't like she will come up with all these concerns like: "he is stalking me" or "he is so needy", etc.

If I was that guy's friend I'd tell him: Just leave her alone. There's plenty of fish out there. Someday you will meet someone who will love you for you.

 

Once a creep always a creep is what the chick will be thinking. And the more you beg for forgiveness, the more you will come across as a creep to her.

 

You didn't say what the stalking behavior consisted of. If it was that bad, that she thinks he's a creep upon finding out, probably not a good chance for a close relationship anytime in the future.