How many of you are married?

Bah!!! You can be married and still stay a virgin!!!!!

They don't talk to you. They don't argue with you. They don't tell you what to do. You tell it what to do, and they ALWAYS do it. You don't even have to buy them a ring or worry about a wedding!!!! Don't you wish human chicks were like computers!!!!

I started dating the chicks back when I was about eight. I dated with the first one for about 10 years before dumping her and marrying a much better chick which was love at first sight!!! And all the chicks since then have been love at first site!!! And I've usually dumped them at the first site of a much better one when they got old, or when they got sick!!

 

married and happy..

 

Lucky you , i have been searching for my since decades (1.9 to be precise )

 

Haha thats great dude you should publish a book about this youd make some money. Me and my honey. and talk about macs throughout the book

 

I agree with you. I think that life is to be shared with someone you love. Your soul mate.

When I was little, we'd get asked what do you want to be when you're older? All my friends would say Popstars/Hairdressers etc etc...and I'd say ''I want to be married forever & be a mum''

Ahah. Riiiiiiiiight better shut up before I ruin my Wankster Wankster Internet Gangsta Reputation.

Boo-Yah!

 

We all got a soft side, you soft gangsta.

 

You can also play virgin to your mate.LOL

 

Aw, that's a sweet story hun. I hope you both have a very happy future together and that we all get to find such a nice relationship as you have!

 

If you already love him and spend so much time with him 4-5 years is a bit much to wait. Whats so scary about marriage, people get divorced left and right nowadays anyway. ;p

 

I'm 20 and single. Right now I'm getting my business going and saving my money to get a new house by age of 24-25. I plan to be married and have a family by any time from 25-30 though.

 

Don't rush it!

I am happily married, but I waited until I was 36 and my wife was 28. (I am guessing on both numbers -- I AM A GUY!)

We dated for about five years.

It was the right thing to do, for us.

But don't rush into marriage. Divorce can be terrible. I have five friends going through divorce right now and it is a living hell for all of them.

 

Good points Will.

That's why I'm waiting for that special someone, I just want someone mature who loves to laugh and enjoy life like me.

 

Best of luck, mate

 

Im married and Im 38.

 

I have never understood the "I'm planning to get married at age so and so" without someone you anticipate marrying actually being in your life. It doesn't make sense to me. You meet that someone when it happens. Your plans are not going to get your soulmate to come into your life

(don't plan for love, just be ready for it ... at all times!)

 

I don't get the whole marriage gig, personally. I do not want a 'wife' but I sure wouldn't mind a 'partner' when I'm older and settled in my finances and life.

A relationship is a relationship is a relationship - why enter into a legally binding contract? You don't know you will care for them forever and ever. You may want to stick an ice axe in their head 6 months down the line after they go bannanas and past mental problems surface like demons thinking it's safe to let loose now that you're both 'married'. You can make any sort of vows or promises to care, love or treat or feel a certain way about one person forever. That is bunk.

If you don't marry and your relationship with a person doesn't work out, even if and after you have kids, you simply walk away from each other with no legal hassles and none of that 'Oh they're getting divorced' sympathy, stigma and bullshit.

Why get the government or religion involved in your personal affairs? If you love and care for a person, that's where it should end if you ask me. If you want kids and it feels right, go ahead.

Marriage. Honestly.

Pete

 

I believe in marriage, but love needs to come first. None of that family pressure or even arranged marriage crap like in some countries. I hear the "you will learn to love each others" stuff quite a bit, but I believe that nothing beats passion, the right timing (not up to you) and just everything happening as it's meant to. So, whatever society tells people which is the right age, which is too young etc ... I don't buy any of it.

If you get married at 19, you're too young ... when you're 33 and you're not, people will wonder about you. My cousin got married at 16 and 28 years later they are still together (happily for all I know). My wife's aunt was married before, but got remarried at 40 and is happy now. So, who is to say what age is the right one. My uncle wasn't married until age 42 and everyone thought he was gay. He then married the world's biggest dingbat, and I think hadn't people and society put pressure in many forms, he would have waited and possibly hit the jackpot.