Marriage, Love, and Lust

Hey everybody, well the reason why I wanted to talk about Marriage because i'm one of the people who is not gonna find love then get married. All my life, All I ever wanted was to find someone that I loved and live a fairytale. But things like that doesn't exist. Even nowadays young people are forgeting about Marriage and they are sticking to Lust!
How do you know that she/he is the one? How can you tell?
Do you think online relationships works? Do people accually get married from the interent....
Describe your perfect soulmate, is there a perfect soulmate?
Is love even worth it?
What would you do if you were forced to get married? (imagine you were an arab)

 

I'd ruuuun away. Many young arabs dointg that now already.

 

Love is not something that comes and stays, it's something where everyone has to work on it for a lifetime, going through various stages.

Yes, there are many people which found and find their soulmates online, - a few unfortunate having troubles though.

 

Remember one thing before taking any step "Don judge a book by its cover"

 

that's true there are many arabs running away.. but imagine your this arab girl ok and you think you find your true love.
so you pack your bags and your ready to run.
The thing is when an arab girl runs away from here home, there is no coming back. what if this person your running away with was not as man as you think he was. What if he turns his back on you?? what would you do then..
so before anybody runs away you have to think twice.
plus i think 50 percent of the people who run away.. regret it because they will be unwanted and especially in the arab world the parents would hate them forever...

 

ok i'm gonna talk about my life.... ok lets saw that you love a girl from all your heart.. and when you want to marry her.. her parents stand in your way.. wouldn't you do everything possible to get married to her.. or would you walk away... ??
the answer is that you would do everything possible!!!
but many people walk away.. and that is what happened to me...

 

i think that the nice thing when you meet a person online... you directly touch the soul.. the personality.. that is the nicest thing about it..

 

Unless its a 50 year old fat married guy who says he's 23, single and in great shape (or says hes a 16 year old girl)

Then the soul doesn't matter so much

 

Can a mod please combine all threads started by this member into one long line of bullshit, or just delete the lot?

 

Lol, I was thinking the same thing

 

i dont' know what's your people's problem.. is it racism?

 

Don't even go there "Lara"

I don't care where you or anyone is from

 

well i faced the same prob and my wife too,finally we both ended up with successful marriage.

 

you know you should thank god everyday... your one of the lucky ones.. say hi to your wife for me...

 

mmm... now i come to think of it. our anti terrorists wings should find a way to check the forced marraige of arab youths. at least they can control the number of suicide bombers this way.

 

loooooooooool... that is the funniest post i read so far.. hehe

 

Yea i do and sure things.

 

Here's how you might get married on the internet, on AIM...

 

No, it's not racism... it's you, personally... on an individual level with exception to anyone with any association with you completely and utterly alone .... spelled out... this is about Y O U no one else YOU!

I've heard many a cry for help... genuine and un-genuine in my time... met plenty of manipulators... on the streets and in prison ... etc

Your best defence is to get help and diagnosed with a personality disorder... either way, this is not the forum for you.

I'm a Social Worker, another member of the forum is a Psych... you are in an environment where needy / childish behavior doesn't wash - it is so easy to 'see you' I see you and look forward to some sweeping moderation.

 

so tell us.. what happen.. and how did you two get married at the end... can you please tell us the whole story plz!!