Marriage, Love, and Lust

btw I have absolutly no idea why I posted that, I think lara;s random posting is wearing off on me....

 

it's ok you can talk about relationships in this thread.. so why did you move away...

 

Work, always work..

 

why didn't you take her with you??? is she studying or something? or her parents won't allow it..

 

Shes old enough to make her own mind up, she probably would come if I asked her but she is studying so id rather she did that.

 

anyway i hope that love will find it's way home... i hope and wish you the best of luck... anyway if you do love her..go get her... you don't find love everyday...

 

Wow, slow down there.... who mentioned the word love...! eeek dont swear at me....!!!!!!!

 

if you miss her.. and your talking about her that means you love her.. trust me...

 

No it doesnt, I was engaged once and that was love, I dont love my x at all, not in the lets get married sense anyway!

 

An interesting observation some poet (i forgot which one. doesnt matter, he is a local poet in india.) made was that, you can never find a girl who wasted her life for her lost love, but history has in store a thousand men who has wasted their life over their lost love.

So all I have to say to those men out there (including me) who was dumped by your girl is,

"When your girl friend turns her back on you ... enjoy the rear view." -- king_cobra. Copyright 2005, king_cobra.

 

welcome to the arab world, i hate this world, i would never do that to my kids either...

 

I dont know whome you love???

You hate you culture, you hate your country. you hate your father.

Wow what a superb person to love we got here.

 

if i hate everything down here it doens't mean i cannot be loved.... ok? anyway until you see what the culture is about you will understand why i have this hatred...

 

I knew there was a catch

 

We people of India do have some problems with our society.
castism, religion, poverty for example.
but that doesnt make us to say we hate our country.

I have very few friends in my real life. I usualy prefer living alone because I am a very difficult person to get along with. but I dont say that I hate this world

before comming to this web business I was an telecom. engineer working for Orange mobile comapny on a very good salary package, and my mom wanted me to marry a girl of her choice, something for which I wasnt ready because I love another girl which my mom isnt ready to accept so We had a row...very bad row and since then we aint on the talking term**. Me and my mom do have some differences
but I dont say I hate my mom

Everything has a good and a bad side equally.
But when you say that you hate your country...your culture...your father...the world you live in...it shows you are a coward , who can not confront the situation...who can not fight..who can not find a way.

 

Not always though. I myself have left home early because I didn't get along with my parents. It wasn't a running away situation, just that things were not going to get any better by being so close to each others. I believe that time can heal a lot of things, but sometimes the distance can bring people closer together.

 

Mike that is the same case with me..I had to leave my house as it wasnt easy to go through
But does that make you say that you **hate** your parents??
I know there are differences but we faced it, We got a solution.
we dint go anywhere, whinning about that We hate our parents.

in my case with all the differences, I love my parents.
dont you agree with me?

 

To be honest, at the end I have hated the situation so much that I've said I hated my parents. In reality I didn't, but it felt pretty close. Now everything is fine. But I can't imagine myself having lived there any longer than I did. My advice is always: if you don't like living where you are, get the heck out. For example: when I drove up to Oregon, I've stopped in a couple little hick towns. I myself would not be able to live in one of those, too boring, too demotivating. The kids there, most of them will leave and go to Portland or something. I always feel sorry for the ones left behind, the ones who are just stuck and miserable, but cannot seem to find the drive to do something about it.

 

there is a difference between what you think and what you do.

anyway for me, yes I hated that situation and even I can not imagine myself having lived there any longer than I did.
but I never hated my parents coz the situation was bad but I was equally responsible for that situation. I brought that so I had to face it.