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What is love? Do you believe in Love?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by ottodo, Jul 22, 2006.

  1. GRIM

    GRIM Prominent Member

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    #41
    No you can't force yourself, but you can love someone even if they are horrible to you, treat you like trash, do not make you happy, etc. I've witnessed so many woman do just that. In the process lying to themselves the entire time until they finally wake up to what really was going on and leave the situation for good..
     
    GRIM, Aug 15, 2006 IP
  2. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #42
    Yes, I do agree with you there. To some women, love is the be all/end all of existence, and I just don't buy it. Love can only go so far until you have to realize the relationship isn't what you thought it was. The concept of love... can't save everything.
     
    DeniseJ, Aug 16, 2006 IP
  3. Danny

    Danny Active Member

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    #43
    i just want to know what is the definition of the world 'Love'?
    It all depends on the person and the 5 languages of love.

    For me loving someone means wanting to make their life easier and wanting to shoulder their burdens. It means wanting to look after them, wanting to talk to them and wanting to let down all my walls.

    Though after my latest bout with love I am not so sure anymore you can read the whole sad, frustrating and horrible story of it if you want http://www.brokenheartedproductions.com

    Do you believe in Love? how far??
    I believe in lov, I use to believe it conquored all, but not sure anymore, see above

    Basically I have walls from being screwed over. I finally let them down for someone who showed me exactly why I had them up in the first place. My way of dealing with it was to start a blog all about it :)

    It has made me feel better so far
     
    Danny, Aug 16, 2006 IP
  4. seojig

    seojig Well-Known Member Affiliate Manager

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    #44
    i believe in love.we cant explain love in word u can understand it when u fall in love with some one. go ahead and search for your true love!!!!!!!
    all the best
     
    seojig, Sep 13, 2006 IP
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    wissam Well-Known Member

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    #45
    I love love lol
     
    wissam, Sep 13, 2006 IP
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    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    #46
    Love in general is great, in relationships it's like the lottery.
     
    Blogmaster, Sep 13, 2006 IP
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    TCR Peon

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    #47
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    My Head won't stop bopping to the left!
     
    TCR, Sep 13, 2006 IP
  8. Daniel

    Daniel Peon

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    #48
    I no longer believe in true love.
     
    Daniel, Sep 17, 2006 IP
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    timsdd Peon

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    #49
    I think it's hard to define b/c it might mean different things to different people. {how vague of me} :p

    some of you might automatically discount this based on the source :eek: but for what it's worth I think it's very good.

    1 Corinthians 13

    4) Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5) It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6) Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7) It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

    8) Love never fails...

    13) And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
     
    timsdd, Sep 17, 2006 IP
  10. ottodo

    ottodo Guest

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    #50
    i agree with u...
    i do believe with understanding between any couple more than love ;)
     
    ottodo, Sep 17, 2006 IP
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    topaffiliateprogram Peon

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    #51
    Well their is no love in this world . i know better cause i have done it practically .. i chat with a girl 3 years (never met she was far away , oh i was 17 yr old then).she called me one day and told me she has married to other guy . oh my legs started shivering by listening it so i thought that i was in love and i need that girl really bad .. but after few days i saw a cute girl going outside from my house . i did not want to see her but i dont know why was i seeing her ? i repeating this proccess and started looking at every beautiful girl ... and found that thier is nothing like love ... if god breaks your desktop it gives you laptop . similarly if a girl denies you for love it means you are going to get more hot chick for love/friendship/affection whatever it is
     
    topaffiliateprogram, Sep 17, 2006 IP
  12. Mystique

    Mystique Well-Known Member

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    #52
    Love is something complex to explain because it can't be generalized.parents love, lovers love, mankind love, etc. etc. etc.
     
    Mystique, Sep 17, 2006 IP
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    #53
    I believe in love mostly between family members and close friends. However, I think love between a man and a woman seems more like temporary infatuation, even if it lasts years.
     
    natekapi, Sep 17, 2006 IP
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    #54
    Hi Dear the defination of the love is "A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness." and "A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment." and really if you want to know more then you need to love some one then you can fully trust on the love, means what is love? this big question become a big answer them self.. do it now:)
     
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    dam_sid Banned

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    #55
    if u cant live without ur love den you r in love else...
    try to find out ur love.
     
    dam_sid, Oct 6, 2006 IP
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    Zakir Banned

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    #56
    Hi,

    Love is "Lot of Voilence and Entertainment" ;;)
     
    Zakir, Oct 6, 2006 IP
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    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    #57
    I believe in life after love, Cher taught me that.
     
    Blogmaster, Oct 6, 2006 IP
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    britishguy Prominent Member

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    #58
    Love is that what you do with your 'gig' FWB's:)

    I am not sure is that what it is;)

    The other love outside direct family and close friends is too difficult to explain
     
    britishguy, Oct 6, 2006 IP
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    WHMTalK Banned

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    #59
    Love is the mixture of help, kindness, affection, attraction, attachment, deep feelings, understandings, care and what not..

    But pure love ends when you get married with your partner. Then your love is tied up in a relationship.. then you are under control of someone... you loose your freedom... You don't realize it in the early days of your marriage life.. but the truth is that many people feel like they are being controlled by their wife/husband...

    and when freedom dies, your relationship starts to die...

    In simple words, love is based on the freedom of thoughts, feelings, etc... You start to order your wife/husband, your love starts to die...

    *Ahem!
     
    WHMTalK, Oct 6, 2006 IP
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    #60
    what if (and believe me, this is a BIG what if), she could turn back time???
     
    timsdd, Oct 6, 2006 IP