What's up with all these mature school teachers...

...having sex with minors? I mean married older women boinking teen boys. Almost every week now you hear of a new case. Just now I saw this on foxnews:

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2017/08/2...ol-accused-sex-romp-with-teenage-student.html

Can someone explain this to me... Is it because the teens mature faster these days or is there something psychologically wrong with the 45-50 y.o. generation?

 

"Aimee Palmitessa, 45, has been accused of having sex with a 16-year-old student at the elite Brentwood School in Los Angeles."

I'd like to see the evidence before I judge.

 

She is already arrested and the bail is set at $230,000. I don't know, but it doesn't sound like she is falsely accused or something.

There are plenty of other cases too:

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/u...runk-eleanor-wilson-school-trip-a7862291.html
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/cri...ex-charges-obsessed-student-article-1.3423157
http://www.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-me-ln-teacher-arrest-20170820-story.html

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1st link - she was caught in the act.
2nd link - she bombarded the student's phone with text messages and phone calls after becoming obsessed.
3rd link - same woman mentioned in the first post of this thread. It's just a different article.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I'd need to see more evidence before thinking Aimee is guilty.

 

Well i think this society go crazy .How a woman of 45 years to sleep with a 16 years boy ,this its disqusting .I was understanding iw was 10 years diference .But its 29 years bigger than him

 

I'd understand if the age difference was less so, and the woman was single. Most of them, however, 20-30 years their senior, married with children and in a position of authority. It's possible, of course, that they are attention / sex deprived in a loveless marriage, but I wonder if it has more to do with an immature, attention-seeking and somewhat perverted mindset. A boy is not going to get interested in a way older teacher if she doesn't act like a slut around him herself.

 

I read an article within the past month about a 43-year-old woman teacher (married) who convinced a single mom of a teen boy to let her adopt (i.e., let the teacher adopt the student) to give the boy a more stable home to finish high school in. She was able to adopt him, take him in and then had sex with him nonstop:

http://nypost.com/2017/07/06/married-teacher-allegedly-adopted-student-to-have-sex-with-him/

 

Really very disgusting thing

 

Yet another one: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2017/08/2...ex-romps-with-at-least-two-teens-resigns.html

 

Okay, let me throw something out there that I have been thinking about since I first saw this thread. When I was 16, 17, 18, etc., the thought of a teacher in her 20's or 30's wanting to have sex with me would have been thrilling beyond belief! I still have that same initial reaction today when I see a cute 20-something female teacher and ask why I couldn't have been so lucky.

Now, here is the thing. Being 17 in the 1970's was an entirely different level of maturity, social skills, etc., than being a 17-year-old today. I recently vacationed with my family and an old family friend who is almost exactly my age and never had kids. He got to spend a couple days with my 25-year-old and my 15-year-old. At the end, as we were getting ready to head home in different directions, he asked me, "So when do kids grow up these days?" He was not trying to be rude or insulting, he was just asking a question about something that was painfully obvious from the two days he spent with them.

My reply was that based on my experience with nieces and nephews (we have quite a few, in fact, and all are older than our kids) that I believe that adult maturity occurs now around 30 years of age as opposed to 18 back in the 1970's.

So, given this issue it is reprehensible for these teachers to take advantage of today's teenagers because they are more like elementary or middle school maturity levels than what we were at the same age. And that is way too young.

Of course, my Dad felt the same way about my generation because he had to quit school at age 12 to help support his family during the Great Depression and we got to go to high school, college, etc., and not strike out on our own until 18 or older.

 

My dad was 14 and he was the only one from his family who worked. His dad was drafted during the WWII and his mom had 4 other kids (younger than my dad), so she couldn't work. When I was 22 and still living with my mom and dad, he was constantly mad at me. If it was up to him, he'd probably kick us all out by the time we were 16.

 

One more: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2017/08/2...accused-sexually-assaulting-male-student.html

And I think I've found the answer: http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/08/19/inside-minds-women-who-have-sex-with-boys.html

"What sort of women have so little regard for the autonomy of others? Generally, they are women whose own boundaries were shattered in childhood or adolescence. It is cliché, but also true, that sexual offenders were most often victims themselves (whether of sexual misconduct or physical violence or significant emotional violence)...

...Women who sexually abuse boys may also have less control over their actions due to illnesses like bipolar disorder or impulse control disorder, sometimes coupled with substance abuse."

 

The problem is that those women never grew up beyond high school, which is why they work there and have affairs with underage students. It has reached epidemic proportions, for sure, and I will never understand how anyone male or female could ruin their career, their marriage, and possibly their family for something as meaningless as sex.

You would think with all the female teachers getting busted and having their offenses made into national news stories that it would have a deterring effect, but it doesn't.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/married-teacher-allegedly-had-sexual-222400910.html




http://nypost.com/2017/06/21/married-teacher-arrested-for-having-sex-with-teen-student/



Some of those female teacher screwing minors are downright gorgeous and would have no trouble finding a man their age, if they weren't already married!

Then there's the story of the teenage boy having threeway sex with two teachers (amazingly, one was acquitted, the one who happens to be the daughter of a judge).

http://nypost.com/2017/04/26/teacher-accused-of-having-threesome-with-student-found-not-guilty/
http://www.nola.com/crime/index.ssf/2017/04/destrehan_teacher_sex_trial_ve.html#incart_breaking

Notice how the teacher chose trial by judge instead of trial by jury (a very risky move for most criminals which is why it is almost never done). A jury would have convicted her, but because her father is a judge, another judge found her not guilty. Proof that the justice system is screwed up.


More:

https://www.cbsnews.com/pictures/notorious-teacher-sex-scandals/

 

At least what we read here in the news--and teacher or coach or any person in a "position of authority" having sexual activity with a minor will get reported as it is the type of sensational/salacious news the media thinks will draw viewers/readers--female teachers/coaches engaging in unlawful sexual activity with minors far exceeds males doing the same. Of course, I haven't studied this in depth but as far as what hits the news, the women doing this far outnumber men. That's what makes this thing interesting. I think it is equally wrong for a female to engage in sexual activity with a subordinate as it is for a male. Part of the myth is that women don't do this type of thing when facts say otherwise.