Will Lara One Day Be free? Will She Be able to break out?

Hello since this is the general chat, i would like to talk about my problem!

visit my site and read "this is my story"
you will see what has happened in my life..
i'm so down... and so unhopeful...
so with all your help i hope i can break out...

lara

laraabasi.blogspot.com

 

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edit - should be http://www.laraabasi.blogspot.com/

 

Sad story, at least you know who your father is though...

 

sorry guys the website is
www.laraabasi.blogspot.com


you call this a father.. i wish i never had a father... what kind of father kills her daughter's dreams of studying... after high school i have nothing... all i have is the internet..

 

The internet is a great way to meet people and learn things that you want to do, I just hope you can get what you are looking for from it.

 

truth is... i really want to become a web designer... that is all i can do from here... and this way if i make money.. then i might be able to break out.. or buy my freedom.. you don't understand i live like a slave.. i clean, cook, and surf the net.. that's all i do.... i just wish one day i can make any real money that way i can break away from this prison...
by the way what were you talking about when you said "at least i have a father.. or know him" what did you mean.. anything wrong with your life?

 

Where are you located...Your blog seems to indicate the UK.

 

ya i'm located in the uk how about you ysf1?

 

Im just trying to figure out your situation. As you are 21, have you tried calling the police. I am sure if you are being physically held against your will they could set you up with temporary accomodation until you can find employment.

 

Yes your right i am 21 years old but there is something you don't understand.. we are half arabs.. half lebanese and my father has a disgusting mentality.
Plus if maybe if i call the police.. i don't want to live in some bad place... I want to make money and then break away. I want to prove to my father that i don't need him.. maybe then he might let me go without a fight. My life is so complicated.. I hope you understand.

 

Nothing wrong with my life no, I never met and never will meet my father, he doesnt even know I exist so it makes no difference, it would be ncie to meet him but its not going to happen.

Anyway rather not talk about it, lets just see how we can help you do design work

 

If the situation is how you explain it, you will never be "let go". You are 21 and with the way you are being treated, have nothing to prove.

Why do you think you would be put in a "bad place" if the police were involved. Anywhere has to be better then the situation you are apparently in.

I know...I am trying to give the benefit of the doubt as I would hate to go down that road and be wrong

 

Your right we shouldn't talk about the past, it should be erased. Maybe I have been living a sad life, but if i do learn how to work and design i might be able to make some money. So how do you think I should start out. My online friend told me to start out with blogs? what do you think immorta??

Or maybe I should learn how to design complete websites?
I don't know?

 

I think you should get a steady day job and start your internet business's in your spare time.

If your blog is for real, you need to get out of the abusive situation, then worry about getting web design work

 

Well accually I was thinking about what you said, your right anywhere is better then this place. But really think about it, if the police takes me out of here. Then they give me somewhere to live, but that's more like asking for charity and I don't do that. Plus what kind of a job will they give a High school student, I don't have enough money to enter a university or anything.

So my plan is to make enough money to survive alone, then I will go to war with dad. I hope I can break away
I hope I can make enough money and go to university.

 

You won't make enough to go to university with Web Design while in your situation. If your situation is for real, I doubt your father would even allow you to do that.

There are lots of jobs for those with high school educations in the UK who want to work hard. There are also organizations out there to help people in your situation. There is nothing wrong with accepting Charity to get on your feet. Just think, once you are successful you can help others like yourself.

 

I'm gonna try this is the only way out now, thank you for you help ysf1. I"m gonna keep fighting until I make money, or maybe one day I might give up and do what you told me to do....
Thanx anyway

 

Yup - that's why I quickly thought better of it and deleted on reading the next post - but obviously not quick enough

 

I just hope you people don't think i'm lieing, because i'm really going through problems. Anyway when i get out of here I want to meet every person that helped me out and thank him personally. That's the best I can do to prove to you people that i'm not lieing... I don't have a Web cam or anything.. my father would kill me. And that picture I took when i was 19 with my mobile and since then my father took my mobile away from me

 

Have you considered that your father would just take that money and you would still be stuck in the same situation?